Love Is Not Just A Feeling Jasmine Badge

Getting married is easy, the challenge is staying in marriage. A lot of people avoid tough conversations with their significant other. They’re are afraid that if they ask for what they need or want, they’ll rock the boat too much and be rejected or abandoned. But no relationship is worth investing in if you have to lie to keep it going. The truth is, we have to be willing to lose our relationship to make it a relationship worth keeping. If you are contemplating whether to stay in your relationship or leave it, you must recognise that in most scenarios you will have to grieve something. Each decision puts you face to face with grief. Each path requires you to trade something for something else. What do you trade by leaving ? What do you trade by staying? Reminder: Love is not just a feeling. It is a decision. Feeling change and if we approach our relationship based solely on an emotion, then it doesn’t stand a chance. ~ JB